Losing body fat and getting yourself back into shape are just two of the steps we all take when our boyfriend/girlfriend or spouse has abandoned us. Several of you have asked me for information on mending a broken relationship and, although it doesn’t directly have to do with the most effective way to lose body fat and get into shape, I searched MANY programs and found one that I can honestly recommend.
The book I found, and recommend, is called “The Magic of Making Up” and it was written by TW Jackson.
About T.W. Jackson. . .
The intro video on the link below is a good place to get a feel about this “country man” and his personality and sincerity.
T.W. Jackson likes to be called T Dub, and makes it clear that he’s not a psychologist, doctor, or “relationship guru.”
He was either a “military brat” or in the military for most of his life. When he was 17 years old, he joined the US Navy.
Since he moved around a lot most of his life, he says it was necessary to quickly learn how to get along with different people. As he says, “I can sit down and have some sake with my friend in Tokyo…or pop open a can of suds and fish Lake Dardanelle with an Arkansas “redneck” buddy of mine…makes no difference…”
He eventually became so good at understanding people and their motivations that he found he could influence their behavior and actions(always in a positive way). In his circle of friends, he was known as “Dear Abby” and anyone with a “people problem” would come to him seeking a solution.
Here is a short review of what he covers:
Do you have these symptoms?
-Leaving the radio off because every song makes you cry
-Loss of appetite
-Binge eating for comfort
-Calling your ex several times a day
-Text messaging and emailing constantly (Text Message Terrorism)
-Constantly checking your email and voice mail to see if he/she called
-Not going out because you are afraid to miss a call
-Thinking non-stop about why they REALLY left you
-Feeling massively depressed
-Feeling urges to spy on them
-Endlessly rehearsing what you should have said
-Endlessly rehearsing what you will say if you bump into them
…and when you do get a hold of them, it usually turns ugly because without a clear plan of what you are supposed to do…what happens? P-A-N-I-C…defensiveness…arguments…and then it gets really nasty.
Do You Make These Mistakes With Your Ex?
-We try to convince them we are the love of their life
-We will apologize profusely for everything
-Promise to change for good this time
-Try to get them to see that it wasn’t really our fault
-Even beg with them to take us back
You can click on the link below to get more information. Be sure to watch the videos. You can even contact him by email or telephone, or write him at his home in Russellville, Arkansas. The information is on the link below.
